

It is time for all of us to break out of the shame of our histories and step into the fullness God has for us!!! Perspective is empowering, before marriage, but also how it impacts us within a marriage.

In Debra’s story, shame and guilt didn’t help her break free of sexual sin but the realization that sex is God’s gift and is beautiful in the right place and time. Purity is not toxic, it is the shame, the isolation, the hiding.” Sex is so sacred and is created to be beautiful within the perimeters of marriage. “It isn’t a toxic purity culture, it’s toxic shame culture. In this podcast Debra, Caitlin and Sloane dive into the common myths about purity culture and break the boxes surrounding them. True Love Dates provides honest help for dating by providing a guide into three vital relationship essentials: dating inward, dating outward, and dating upward.ĭebra is a professional Christian counselor and popular relationship podcaster who reaches millions with her popular relationship advice blog, Debra Fileta who is a licensed professional counselor who is focused on relationships, and an advocate for “healthy people make healthy relationships”. Through powerful, real-life stories, clinical examples, and Fileta's personal journey, this book offers profound insights from the expertise of a professional counselor on how to date in a healthy way that increases the rewards and minimizes the risks.

In True Love Dates, licensed counselor and relationship expert Debra Fileta encourages Christian singles not to "kiss dating goodbye" but instead to use healthy dating as the way to find true love.

They're bombarded by Christian books that shun dating, idolize courting, fixate on spiritual platitudes, and in the end, offer little real relationship help. They're disillusioned with the church that has provided little practical application in the area of love and relationships besides telling them to kiss dating goodbye. Get ready to talk about Christian Dating in a way you never have before!Ĭhristian singles are looking for answers to finding love & marriage.
